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SAFER SEX
Practicing safer sex has become a chore for many. It often
represents a too clinical approach to sex. But safer sex can
also be "fun sex." When condoms are used correctly
and with proper lubrication, both partners will have increased
pleasure and sensitivity. It can often add to intimacy between
partners and assist in better communication in the bedroom.
The condom is the most commonly used method for safer sex.
Prelubricated condoms are available but they can be gritty
and long term storage may cause the lubricant to weaken the
condom. Some people resort to the use of "natural skins,"
derived from animal tissue, or sheer latex in order to enhance
sensitivity. However, your safety is compromised by these
choices. Sheer latex condoms are easily torn while the "natural
skins" do not block the AIDS and herpes viruses.
To find the condom right for you, experiment with the length,
thickness and features of the condom. Some come with ribbing
or ridges that act to increase stimulation for the receiving
partner. Adding a few drops of a personal lubricant to the
inside surface of the tip of the condom before it is unrolled
will provide the wearer with greater sensitivity. The personal
lubricant should also be applied to the outer surface of the
latex condom and may be applied to the partner's genitals
during foreplay. This will eliminate the possibility of discomfort
or irritation of delicate tissues. Lubrication prior to penetration
will enhance your partner's enjoyment and decrease the possibility
of the condom tearing. The condom is best applied by you or
your partner before there is any contact. The reason for this
is to prevent exposure to the small amount of semen that is
sometimes released at arousal, even before sex is actually
initiated and ejaculation has occurred.
The choice of a personal lubricant is extremely important. It should be water-based and water-soluble. Petroleum based products will break down the latex and damage the condom as well as adhere to delicate tissues and provide a good breeding ground for harmful microorganisms to grow and multiply. Choosing a lubricant that is slightly acidic will inhibit these unfriendly organisms.
The lubricant of choice should be convenient to apply, easy
to remove with water and basically, mimic the characteristics
of the body's own lubricating fluids.
Astroglide Personal Lubricant is a great choice. Its unique
formula is water-based, water-soluble and designed to mimic
the body's natural fluids. Astroglide makes condom use more
enjoyable and makes safer sex a reality.
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