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Don’t underestimate simple touch.

While sexual sensations can be super satisfying, it’s often the sensual touches that can have us hungering for more. With a simple peck, a reaffirming squeeze, a neck rub, or a little hand holding, affectionate touch can bring your bodies alive and make for a much more satisfying, intimate relationship.

Learn to forgive.

Whether you’re upset with your partner over something major or minor, it may be in your best interest to get past the issue. Research shows that people who forgive an experience are less depressed and stressed, and are in better physical health than those who won’t let go of their anger.

Prop a pillow under your pelvis.

Any type of cushion in just the right spot can change up the stimulation experienced during sex by changing the angle of penetration or other types of pleasuring. Relish new sensations as you experiment with different pillows, varying in degrees of thickness, and seeing which ones you enjoy best.

Having trouble falling asleep? Have more sex!

While sex can be a total upper, in other cases, in can be the ultimate sleep sedative – and that goes for both men and women. As you come down from peaking, your body feels yummy, relaxed and prepped for a nice snooze. So whether it’s with a partner or with yourself, have some sex if you’re having trouble getting your zzzz’s.

Make phantasms the focus of foreplay.

While sexual sensations can be super satisfying, it’s often the sensual touches that can have us hungering for more. With a simple peck, a reaffirming squeeze, a neck rub, or a little hand holding, affectionate touch can bring your bodies alive and make for a much more satisfying, intimate relationship.

Glow.

Sex appeal is all about your natural beauty – the self-confidence and charm that exudes from within. When you combine this with your physical attributes and know how to work it, your inner glow will shine through. So don’t underestimate what can be done in unleashing the true beauty within you. It can be hypnotic!

Let yourself be lazy during rear-entry.

You want to have sex but don’t have the energy to prop yourself up? Rear-entry can turn both of you on, and is so what you want to do! So for making it happen, lie on your stomach and have your partner enter you from behind. Your lover can either support his or her own weight or lie on top of you, and you don’t have to do much more than simply enjoy yourself, especially given that the full-body contact is divine.

Where’s the proof?

While orgasm and ejaculation are two separate functions, the two often go hand in hand. So when a guy doesn’t “cum”, it can be a bit concerning for him or his partner. If you find that you’re experiencing climax without expelling ejaculate on a regular basis, then consider talking to a doctor about it. You may have retrograde ejaculation, where the semen enters the bladder instead of exiting the penis. While not a harmful condition, it could be problematic if you want children, and may be the indicator of nerve damage or other conditions.

Plan some fun date ideas.

Even when couples manage to create together time, they can get into a same ol’, same ol’ routine with how they’re spending that time together. Investigate what your local area has to offer in planning your next date, like a local winery or brewery, zoo, camping grounds, new art museum exhibit, bowling alley, state park with bike rental, fruit picking orchard... Novel activities will have a domino effect in impacting your boudoir activities as well!

Go for a health exam.

With so many health conditions contributing to problems in the boudoir, like erectile dysfunction and low libido, it’s important to go for an annual check up to avoid such issues or to proactively deal with them. So just as you maintain your car, taking it in for regular tune-ups so that it’s running smoothly, do the same with your body with an annual doctor’s visit. Such a simple effort is sure to keep up your bedroom performance!

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